Affection should never be forced. period. This upcoming "holiday" puts too much stress on people who are in relationships. and upsets those who aren't. its another reason for hallmark and other stores to make people feel like they have to spend money on their loved ones or they aren't a good husband or boyfriend, or even a good friend. to stores, its just one big paycheck. they don't really care if people love each other, they just want the money. Valentines day, like so many other holidays, has become so much about the spending and the money and the "things" we get and give, that people forget the real reason we have such holidays. I'm not saying its bad to spend money on a loved one. i just think its more important to love them, than to spend money on them. people should know you love them cause you say it, or show it in small actions. it shouldn't be just one or two days a year. it should be every day that you show your loved ones that you love them. Every one should know that they are loved every day. Don't wait till Valentines day or their birthday to tell them, tell them now, show them now. leave a note, a message, a text. pick a flower, give a hug or smile. SAY I LOVE YOU. That's the most important one, tell them. all the time, don't let them forget that you love them!
I'm going to take my own advice and tell you all that i love you! cause i do!
I LOVE YOU ALL!!
until next time!...
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